If you've had a cell phone in the last ten years, then you have likely heard of the term “sexting”. Of course when this first started I was surprised, but not in a bad way.
It sparked my interest from the very start, especially since I was in a long-distance relationship at the time. Once I started asking my friends about it, I discovered a lot of great information about what sexting is, how to use it, and how to rule at it!
However, what's even more important is that I learned just how useful sexting can be.
Sure it might be scary to jump into it if you've never done it before, but I joined in right away and know that just trying it once will show you how fantastic it can be.
How To Sext Your Boyfriend
In fact, I'd say that it's one of the best things that has ever happened to my relationships, even though I didn't stay with the person that I originally started sexting with.
It has been a handy tool in keeping things exciting, even if I've been in the same home but different rooms as my partners.
So how did I get started? Well, I taught myself! If you want to learn how to sext your husband, then use the tips below to learn what I learned along the way.
1. Don't Move Too Fast
Sexting is fun, don't get me wrong. However, if you haven't had sex with your boyfriend, then you should not sext him. This will expose you in a new way that might change your relationship if you haven't gone all the way just yet. Once you do have sex, talk about how you feel about sexting.
This will ensure both of you know what to expect and are open with doing something risque like this.
2. Use Pictures
The first thing I did when I sexted was send sexy pictures to my boyfriend at the time. Although I felt a little silly doing this at first, eventually I really got into it.
Once he received it, my boyfriend told me that he absolutely loved it and it encouraged him to text me dirty things that got me turned on.
It's up to you whether or not you want to show your face in your pictures. It's generally a good idea not to, as this will keep him more interested in what's to come.
Extra Tip: One rule that's incredibly important is to agree to delete videos after they've been received and viewed. Even if you trust that person, it minimizes the risk of your pictures ending up stolen.
3. Take Videos
After I felt empowered with my sexy pictures I took things a bit further with a dirty video. This was just me putting on sexy lingerie, but sometimes I would do other things that I knew would get his motor running.
Again, if you're learning how to sext your husband, make sure you have a “delete after viewing” rule to ensure your videos don't end up in the wrong hands.
Tip: Keep your clothes on; the video can still be sexy while leaving something to the imagination.
4. Have Fun Dirty Texting
One of the hardest parts about sexting for me was figuring out what to say. I was nervous at first, but once I established rules with my boyfriend, it became much easier.
I got comfortable telling him about what my fantasies were, what I would do if I were with him, and how he made me feel when he did certain things.
I also noticed that once I gave more details, he was way more interested. I feel it's because the details created a more picture-like description in his mind, which turned him on.
Tip: Use smiley faces (like the winking smiley) when you are dirty texting. It adds an extra element to your text and helps it come across as more playful.
5. Keep it Casual
When learning how to sext your boyfriend, you'll find that keeping a schedule eliminates the excitement that comes with never knowing when someone is thinking about you. Keep things fresh by sexting whenever you're in the mood or want your boyfriend/husband to know you're thinking about their hands on you.
Go ahead and watch this short clip to learn how to use these tiny little romantic text messages to put the romance and passion back into your relationship. These little text messages have already saved thousands of relationships around the world and In this interview with Michael Fiore, he guarantees it will work for you too.